This blog post is from Rachel Koch. It’s a beautiful testimonial story of her family’s experience at Camp Idyllwild. I am posting it here because her words describe so well the unique philosophy of our camp and how it benefits kids and families. I hope you’ll take time to read all the way through her story – it’s worth it! (all photos in this post are courtesy of Jay Koch).
The Magic of Camp Idyllwild
“Mom, can I PLEASE go back to Camp Idyllwild next summer? And can you sign me up for several weeks?” My daughter pleads with her sincere and expressive brown eyes. She’s not a demanding child and truly doesn’t ask for much. “Yes, I promise you’ll get to come back.” My daughter is convinced she was born in the wrong setting, the wrong time. She was meant to live outdoors as a Native American – living off the land knowing earth, moon and sky as if it were her own soul. She wishes she could communicate with animals in a deeper sense. She values trees, plants, animals and insects as if they were God’s greatest gifts. And I believe they are.

As hard as I try to balance my children’s schedules, to offer them a variety of opportunities, to help them discover their passions and then be able to quench those yearnings… there is a debilitating and seemingly unavoidable error in my efforts. It’s blatant and it’s at the center of it all. SCHEDULE. The children have to go to school, they have to study afterwards, they have to eat and they have to get enough sleep. So where do we squeeze in their childhood? Their moments of timeless exploration and contemplation? Don’t you remember that from your own childhood?
My children aren’t allowed to say they are bored. To me, the restlessness one feels when there is “nothing” to think about or do, just means “go find something to ponder”. It’s sometimes a lot to ask of a child. The most fascinating things shouldn’t be video games, or television shows (although there are excellent educational programs out there), or even colorful pieces of plastic scattered across a playroom. It’s NATURE! Flip over a rock, stick your toes in a stream, examine a dandelion!
Enter Camp Idyllwild. Why didn’t I discover this earlier in their lives??? My two children are at different ends of the spectrum, as are most siblings. It was as if the pensive, quiet role was taken by my daughter, so my son took the opposite personality. He’s loud and vivacious. But in the setting of nature, without being directed by a schedule, they are both perfectly content. Camp Idyllwild, by its very design, allows children to be one with nature. They offer ample choices of activities but unlike most camps, the children are free to choose their focus of interest and then – get this – are allowed to stick with it as long as their little hearts desire! WOW! It’s unheard of!

For a child to spend literally hours allowing their mind to shift to a new attraction only when they are ready to do so (and because their curiosity leads them to refocus on a new fascination) is a gift! I am so thankful that Camp Idyllwild allows my children the luxury of exploring creek beds, watching tiny crawfish scurry, examining pebbles… things they can’t do at home for two reasons: we live on a tiny lot on a busy street in Green Hills and we don’t have the luxury of endless free time when we are at home.
Idyllwild created its name by combining two words, “idyllic” and “wilderness”. The definition of idyllic – excellent and delightful in all respects – is absolutely appropriate to describe Camp Idyllwild… which is truly a natural setting of perfection. I would add another interpretation by using a totally different word. A word that, in childhood, is so very positive and rich: “idle”. Its definition – to pass time without working – may sound negative, even lazy, but it’s not. To pass time. Not to kill time. To pass time in wonder, to spend time questioning, searching, and discovering the great outdoors and all it’s mysteries! My children LOVED this camp…the physical place, the moment to moment experiences, the peace of being totally absorbed in contentment, the opportunity to go at their own pace!
I would highly recommend joining your child/children for the Stargazer Sleepovers offered a couple of times each summer! My husband and I just HAD to see this magical place about which our children were raving as they returned home each day. We joined them on a Friday afternoon in June. Our children couldn’t wait to take us down trails, to point out various water holes, to feed the adorable alpacas. We saw the stream, crawfish, pebbles and fossils discovered during the week. We picnicked with other families who seemed just as blown away as we were and we instantly fell in love with Suzanne and Eric Ward and their lovely children. It was cloudy that night so we couldn’t gaze at the stars as the program had hoped, but we did not feel short-changed in the least! That night, as we climbed into pre-pitched tents with surprisingly comfortable cots (I enjoy the great outdoors but secretly despise sleeping on the ground) I drifted off to sleep listening to the symphony of nature. Cicadas, crickets, an occasional distant owl’s hoot, and the babbling brook combined in my head as a lullaby.

The next morning began with sunbeams streaming into our tent and birds chirping a wake up call. We received a delicious and abundant breakfast and did what our children had become accustomed to all week… we explored and let our curiosity lead the way (if not the hands of our enthusiastic children). Some parents enjoyed the rope swing across (and sometimes into) the water, some hiked, many relaxed and allowed themselves to enjoy the safe environment into which their children happily ran. Our family participated in tree climbing and swimming. Our Camp Idyllwild experience culminated in a hike with Eric up a hill to witness a breathtaking view.

None of us wanted to leave. And just as I promised my daughter, I absolutely plan for us to return again!
Rachel Koch
Nashville, TN